Rebekka’s Blog

Thoughts on parenting our children, ourselves, and humanity

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Recommended children's books: Sibling stories

No book can ever make the process of welcoming a new child into your family completely seamless and free of pain. However, storytelling is a great way to help your child (and you!) navigate this monumental transition with a sense of the many feelings and possibilities that can accompany baby's arrival. Here are some children's books my family and I enjoy about this remarkable time of life.

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Parenting, Therapy Parenting, Therapy

Family is [not] magic

I thought we were doing a pretty good job of having one of those silent passive-aggressive fights. One that was way better and less impactful on our young daughter than an all-out, down to the mat scream-fest.I was terribly, terribly wrong.

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You can celebrate anything you want: Reconciling our "December differences" for families of many cultures and faiths

Every person has roots; celebrate yours, your spouse's, and whichever of humanity's move and inspire you.Perhaps most importantly, know why you do what you do. My dear friends, you are free to choose. Feel empowered. You can have your latkes and eat them too.

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Parenting Parenting

Thanks, but no thanks: Dealing with unsolicited parenting advice graciously and non-defensively

Ah, the season of awkward family encounters. That annual occasion when well-meaning parents, grandparents, in-laws, uncles, and third cousins twice removed all get together to make stilted conversation and offer unsolicited advice on how to raise your little ones. The following three-step approach will help you respond productively to intrusive and unwanted advice on parenting - happy everything to those who celebrate!

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Parenting Parenting

DIY Deluxe Car Sickness Kit

If you're anything like me, you've woefully underprepared, again and again, when your child has gotten sick in their carseat. After a holiday cookie-tossing bonanza, we decided to adult a little harder around here and create a go-bag with all of our carseat cleaning needs handy. We pass on the wisdom conferred by our inexperience to you.

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"I'm not sharing!" Fostering children's authentic ownership and joyful generosity

The season of giving is upon us, for certain, but the spirit of generosity is alive and well year-round.  As parents and caregivers, we can help our children as they experience all kinds of feelings, among them the joy that comes from authentic generosity.  When we strengthen their hearts and souls, we strengthen our own in turn.  

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