Rebekka’s Blog
Thoughts on parenting our children, ourselves, and humanity
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The digital village: Saving our children (and ourselves) from the perils of screen time
Humans have largely lost their villages, replacing them with screens and the stories they tell. To update the old saying, it takes a village to raise both children and parents alike. Who - or what - is in your village?
"I'm not sharing!" Fostering children's authentic ownership and joyful generosity
The season of giving is upon us, for certain, but the spirit of generosity is alive and well year-round. As parents and caregivers, we can help our children as they experience all kinds of feelings, among them the joy that comes from authentic generosity. When we strengthen their hearts and souls, we strengthen our own in turn.
TantrumBox? More like Pandora's Box.
Here's the best tantrum tip I can offer you, totally free.Don't spend 40 bucks on toys to distract your child from a normal, healthy part of their development. Period.
Pet algae balls, biophilia, and technostress: Healing our minds and bodies through connection to the natural world
Behold, the marimo. A spherical scrap of cuteness that took over my mind like a virus. While they are indeed cute, my marimo madness has another, more deeper explanation, one that takes me to the very heart of what it means to be alive on this planet.
Who by fire? Thoughts on mortality during the Jewish New Year Festival
If, or rather, when, they leave us, it doesn't mean they love us any less. And perhaps it means we come to love them even more.
Green eggs and super-strong adhesives: What I learned about my parents by reading Dr. Seuss
Sometimes, appreciating a tasty meal or some fantastic glue is enough to make us feel a little less alone, and to remind us of the time when we were once cared for, sheltered, and held by the very gods themselves.
A Tashlikh Meditation for the Self and the Nation
It is the new year, as celebrated by some of our ancestors. One more journey around the sun. Time to take stock.
The consent game
The message is clear: unless her health or safety are at stake, she and she alone gets to decide who touches her body. Period.
Don't just do something
Don't have a plan. Put away your phone. Heck, don't even take off your pajamas. And if you run out of stuff to do, may I recommend an expedition to your local drugstore?
Hold on tight
Difficult conversations are, well, difficult. Well, when intense feelings abound and are calling at us, daring us to steer toward the rocks, the first thing we must do is hold on tight!
Parent Q&A: When kids prefer one parent, part 2: This time it's personal
This is heartbreaking for me too, and sometimes I have no idea what I'm doing either.
Parent Q&A: When kids prefer one parent
"Lately my son has been really preferring daddy and it's been hard on me."
Limit-setting 101: Key ingredients for holding the line
I believe that whenever we set a limit, we must do so with the following three principles in mind (and in heart, while we're at it): consistency, transparency, and empathy.
You're going to fall
I won't always be there when she falls, but right now, sometimes, I can be.And hopefully, she will learn from me not that she will never fall, but rather that she will definitely fall, and after she does, eventually, she will be okay once again.
Mother's Day 2017
Two Jewish mothers are having dinner in a restaurant.The waiter comes up to them and asks, “Ladies, is anything all right?”